Use _EnumDict._member_names to determine which members to consider.
This way we don't need to redo sunder/dunder checks, and `nonmember`s
(introduced in py3.11) are correctly excluded.
This is a defacto public API, given it remains usable from py3.8
until py3.12 inclusive. (_member_names changes from a list to a
keys-only dict for performance reasons in py3.11, but they iterate the
same.) In current Python main (i.e. what will most likely be 3.13), a
"member_names" property is added which returns those keys.
See amaranth-lang/rfcs#4.
This functionality was not explicitly specified in the RFC but it
falls under "anywhere an integer or an enumeration is accepted".
